Tokyo Local Secrets
Tokyo, Japan
What locals say
What locals say
Elevator Etiquette: Always stand on the left side of escalators in Tokyo (opposite of Osaka). Shoe Culture: Remove shoes when entering homes, some restaurants, and temples - look for shoe racks at entrances. Train Rush Hour: Avoid 7:30-9:30 AM and 5:30-7:30 PM unless you want to experience human sardine simulation. Vending Machines: They're EVERYWHERE and sell everything from hot coffee to cold ramen - yes, cold ramen is a thing.
Traditions & events
Traditions & events
Hanami (Cherry Blossom Season): March-May, locals have elaborate picnics under sakura trees. Arrive early (6 AM) to claim spots in popular parks like Ueno. Summer Festivals (Matsuri): July-August, wear yukata (casual kimono) and try festival foods like takoyaki and kakigōri. Obon Festival (mid-August): Many businesses close as families honor ancestors - plan accordingly.
Annual highlights
Annual highlights
New Year (Shogatsu) - January 1-3: Everything closes, temples packed with first prayers (hatsumode). Golden Week - Late April/Early May: Major travel period, book early or avoid. Obon - Mid-August: Festival of the dead, many return to hometowns, city empties out. Autumn Leaves (Kouyou) - November: Peak season for temple visits and photography. Christmas Illuminations - December: Not religious but romantic date season with elaborate light displays.
Food & drinks
Food & drinks
Ramen Etiquette: Slurping is not only acceptable but shows appreciation to the chef. Conveyor Belt Sushi: Take only what you can eat, stack plates when done for easy counting. Izakaya Culture: Order drinks first, then food to share. Try yakitori (grilled chicken skewers), gyoza, and highball (whiskey soda). Department Store Basement Food Courts (Depachika): Higher quality than street food, perfect for trying various Japanese dishes.
Cultural insights
Cultural insights
Omotenashi (Hospitality): Service without expecting tips - tipping can actually be insulting. Meishi (Business Card Exchange): Receive with both hands, read it carefully, place it respectfully on table during meetings. Silence is Golden: Comfortable silence is normal, don't feel pressured to fill every gap in conversation. Group Harmony (Wa): Avoid standing out or being too direct - subtlety is valued.
Useful phrases
Useful phrases
Essential Phrases:
- "Sumimasen" (soo-mee-mah-sen) = excuse me/sorry - most useful word ever
- "Arigatou gozaimasu" (ah-ree-gah-toh go-zah-ee-mahs) = thank you very much
- "Eigo ga hanasemasu ka?" (ay-go gah hah-nah-seh-mahs kah) = Do you speak English?
- "Oishii!" (oh-ee-shee) = Delicious!
Train Words:
- "Tsugi wa..." (tsoo-gee wah) = Next is...
- "Norikae" (no-ree-kah-eh) = Transfer
Local Slang:
- "Sugoi!" (soo-goy) = Amazing/Cool!
- "Yabai" (yah-bye) = Oh no!/Awesome! (context dependent)
- "Konbini" (kon-bee-nee) = convenience store
Getting around
Getting around
JR Yamanote Line:
- ¥140-200 per journey, connects major districts in circular route
- Trains every 2-3 minutes, locals use for daily commuting
- Get rechargeable PASMO/Suica card for convenience and discounts
- Avoid rush hours 7:30-9:30 AM and 5:30-7:30 PM
Tokyo Metro & Toei Subway:
- ¥170-310 per journey, extensive network covering entire city
- Locals prefer specific lines for their neighborhoods
- Transfer between systems costs extra, plan routes carefully
- English announcements and signs throughout
Walking & Cycling:
- Many districts walkable, locals walk 10,000+ steps daily
- Bike rentals ¥500-1000/day, popular along rivers and parks
- Cobblestone streets in old areas, comfortable shoes essential
- Locals use walking as primary transport for short distances
Taxis & Rideshare:
- Expensive: ¥500-800 for short trips, ¥2000+ for airport
- Locals only use for late night or special occasions
- Uber available but traditional taxis more reliable
- Flag down with raised hand, green light means available
Pricing guide
Pricing guide
Food & Drinks:
- Ramen: ¥800-1500, sushi: ¥2000-5000 per person
- Coffee: ¥300-500, beer: ¥400-800
- Convenience store meals: ¥300-800, locals eat these daily
- Izakaya dinner: ¥2000-4000 per person with drinks
- Department store food courts: ¥1000-2000 for quality meals
Groceries (Local Markets):
- Weekly shop for two: ¥8000-15000
- Local rice: ¥300-500/kg, fish: ¥800-2000/kg
- Seasonal vegetables: ¥200-500 per bunch
- Local sake: ¥800-3000 per bottle
- Miso paste: ¥200-500 per pack
Activities & Transport:
- Museum entry: ¥500-2000
- Temple/shrine donations: ¥100-500
- Monthly metro pass: ¥8000-12000
- Bike rental: ¥500-1000/day
- Capsule hotel: ¥3000-5000/night
Accommodation:
- Budget hostel: ¥3000-6000/night
- Mid-range hotel: ¥15000-25000/night
- Luxury hotel: ¥40000-80000+/night
- Local apartment rental: ¥80000-150000/month
Weather & packing
Weather & packing
Year-Round Basics:
- Four distinct seasons, pack layers for temperature changes
- Locals dress seasonally but fashionably, avoid tourist clothing
- Comfortable walking shoes essential for cobblestone streets
- Umbrella always needed - sudden rain common
Seasonal Guide:
Spring (Mar-May): 10-20°C
- Cherry blossom season, locals wear light jackets and sweaters
- Pastel colors popular, avoid heavy winter clothing
- Rainy season starts late May, pack waterproof jacket
Summer (Jun-Aug): 20-35°C
- Hot and humid, locals wear light cotton and linen
- Air conditioning everywhere, carry light sweater for indoors
- Traditional yukata worn during festivals
Autumn (Sep-Nov): 15-25°C
- Perfect weather for exploring, locals wear light layers
- Autumn colors peak in November, comfortable walking weather
- Evening temperatures drop, pack light jacket
Winter (Dec-Feb): 0-15°C
- Cold but dry, locals wear warm coats and boots
- Indoor heating strong, layer clothing for temperature changes
- Snow rare but possible, check forecast before packing
Community vibe
Community vibe
Evening Social Scene:
- Izakaya Hopping: Local bars in Shinjuku and Shibuya - locals start at 6 PM
- Karaoke Nights: Big Echo and Karaoke Kan chains - locals sing until midnight
- Board Game Cafes: Shibuya and Harajuku locations - locals play strategy games
- Language Exchange: Meetup groups in various districts, mix of Japanese and foreigners
Sports & Recreation:
- Morning Jogging: Imperial Palace and Yoyogi Park - locals run 6-8 AM
- Cycling Groups: Along Sumida River and Arakawa River - locals cycle weekends
- Tennis Courts: Public courts in parks, locals book weeks in advance
- Swimming: Public pools throughout city, locals swim year-round
Cultural Activities:
- Tea Ceremony Classes: Traditional schools in Ginza and Asakusa
- Calligraphy Practice: Community centers offer classes for all levels
- Traditional Crafts: Pottery, weaving, and paper making workshops
- Festival Participation: Locals join neighborhood matsuri celebrations
Volunteer Opportunities:
- English Teaching: Informal conversation practice with local students
- Park Cleanup: Monthly organized efforts, locals protect their green spaces
- Elder Care: Community centers need volunteers for senior programs
- Cultural Exchange: Help locals learn about foreign cultures
Unique experiences
Unique experiences
Robot Restaurant in Shinjuku: Crazy neon robot show with loud music and lasers - pure sensory overload. Tsukiji 5 AM Tuna Auctions: Watch wholesalers bid on massive tuna, then get fresh sushi breakfast. Shibuya Crossing Rush Hour: Stand in the center during evening rush - organized chaos at its finest. Capsule Hotel Night: Sleep in a pod smaller than most closets. Karaoke All-Night: Private rooms, unlimited drinks, sing until sunrise. Maid Cafe Experience: Awkward but uniquely Tokyo - maids serve you while calling you "master".
Local markets
Local markets
Tsukiji Outer Market:
- Still active for food stalls and restaurants, locals shop early morning
- Best fresh fish, local produce, traditional Japanese ingredients
- Tourist-friendly but authentic, locals buy here for special occasions
- Upstairs restaurants serve market-fresh meals
Ameya-Yokocho (Ameyoko):
- Traditional market under train tracks, locals shop for daily needs
- Fresh produce, fish, spices, and street food
- Less touristy than Tsukiji, better prices for locals
- Weekend crowds, locals prefer weekday shopping
Kappabashi Kitchen Street:
- Professional kitchen equipment and supplies, locals buy cooking tools
- Restaurant owners shop here, authentic Japanese kitchen culture
- Plastic food samples for restaurants, unique souvenir option
- Locals know best shops for specific items
Shibuya 109 Fashion:
- Youth fashion mecca, locals shop for trendy clothing
- Japanese street fashion, local brands and styles
- Tourist-friendly but authentic local shopping experience
- Locals know which floors have best deals
Supermarket Tips:
- Aeon and Ito Yokado most popular with locals
- Local brands much cheaper than imported goods
- Bring ¥100 coin for shopping cart, locals always prepared
- Evening discounts on prepared foods, locals shop 7-8 PM
Relax like a local
Relax like a local
Sumida River Dawn Walks:
- 6 AM strolls along river before salary-man rush begins
- Locals jog, walk dogs, practice tai chi - peaceful Tokyo moments
- Cherry blossom season (April) is magical but crowded after 8 AM
Roof Gardens of Department Stores:
- Free sunset viewing spots locals use instead of expensive Sky Tree
- Shibuya Sky, Ginza rooftops, Omotesando Hills - cheap drinks with views
- Best times: weekday evenings 6-8 PM
Imperial Palace East Gardens:
- Free entry to former Edo Castle grounds
- Morning joggers circuit at 7 AM, elderly practicing calligraphy
- Autumn colors peak in late November, avoid weekends
Odaiba Beach Artificial Sand:
- Locals bring convenience store beer and watch Rainbow Bridge lights
- Not swimming beach but relaxation spot, especially summer evenings
- Young couples' date spot, families with kids playing in sand
Where locals hang out
Where locals hang out
Izakaya (ee-zah-KAH-yah):
- Traditional Japanese pub, after-work drinking central to Japanese culture
- Order drinks first, then small plates (otsumami) to share
- Loud and social, very different from quiet daytime Japan
Konbini (kon-bee-nee):
- 24/7 convenience stores, lifeline of Japanese society
- Pay bills, get hot food, use ATM, buy concert tickets
- Each brand has cult following: 7-Eleven vs FamilyMart vs Lawson
Kissaten (kee-SAH-ten):
- Old-school coffee shops with dark wood and jazz music
- Older generation hangouts, expensive coffee served in tiny cups
- Morning sets (toast, egg, coffee) popular with salarymen
Depachika (deh-pah-CHEE-kah):
- Department store basement food courts
- High-end takeaway food, sample everything before buying
Local humor
Local humor
Bowing to ATMs:
- Japanese people unconsciously bow to ATMs and vending machines
- Foreign residents start doing it too after a few months
The Gaijin Card:
- Foreigners blamed for everything: train delays, bad weather, economy
- Locals joke 'Must be because of all the gaijin'
Fake Sleeping on Trains:
- Everyone pretends to sleep to avoid giving up seats
- Perfectly timed 'wake ups' right before their station
Nomikai Transformation:
- Shy office workers become completely different people at drinking parties
- What happens at nomikai stays at nomikai - unwritten rule
Cultural figures
Cultural figures
Akira Kurosawa:
- Film director who defined Japanese cinema globally
- Every taxi driver knows his samurai films, influenced Star Wars and westerns
Hayao Miyazaki:
- Studio Ghibli creator, Japan's Walt Disney
- Adults cry at Totoro references, his films are cultural touchstones
Ichiro Suzuki:
- Baseball legend who conquered both Japan and MLB
- Mention his name and get instant respect from any Japanese sports fan
Emperor Naruhito:
- Current emperor, surprisingly popular and modern
- Japanese people genuinely respect the imperial family
Sports & teams
Sports & teams
Baseball (Yakyu):
- Tokyo Giants vs Hanshin Tigers rivalry - more passionate than any football match
- Seasons run March-October, buy outfield seats for the real fan experience
- Fans bring elaborate cheering gear and choreographed songs
Sumo Wrestling:
- Tokyo tournaments in January, May, September at Ryogoku Kokugikan
- Locals gather in izakayas to watch, incredibly respectful silence during matches
- Wrestlers are celebrities - spotting one on the street causes excitement
Pachinko & Gaming:
- Not exactly sport but national obsession, parlors everywhere
- Older generation's preferred entertainment, younger people prefer mobile games
Try if you dare
Try if you dare
Natto & Raw Egg on Rice:
- Fermented soybeans that smell like old socks, mixed with raw egg
- Breakfast staple that horrifies foreigners but locals eat daily
Corn & Mayo Pizza:
- Pizza Hut's most popular topping combination in Japan
- Sounds wrong but surprisingly addictive
Kit-Kat Flavors Gone Wild:
- Green tea, sweet potato, sake, wasabi Kit-Kats
- Regional flavors only available in certain prefectures
Curry Bread (Kare Pan):
- Deep-fried bread filled with Japanese curry
- Convenience store staple, best eaten hot at 3 AM
Melon Pan with Ice Cream:
- Sweet bread that looks like melon but tastes like cookie
- Summer combo: slice open and stuff with vanilla ice cream
Religion & customs
Religion & customs
Shrine vs Temple: Shinto shrines have torii gates (orange/red arches), Buddhist temples have pagodas. Purification Ritual: At shrines, wash hands and mouth at temizu basin before praying. Prayer Process: Bow twice, clap twice, make wish, bow once more. Temple Bells: Ring them before praying to call the attention of Buddha.
Shopping notes
Shopping notes
Payment Methods:
- Cash still preferred in many places, especially small shops
- Credit cards accepted in department stores and restaurants
- Locals use IC cards (PASMO/Suica) for small purchases
- ATMs available at convenience stores and post offices
Bargaining Culture:
- Fixed prices everywhere - no bargaining expected
- Locals respect price tags, haggling considered rude
- Seasonal sales in January and July offer discounts
- Tax-free shopping for tourists over ¥5000 with passport
Shopping Hours:
- Department stores: 10 AM - 8 PM
- Small shops: 10 AM - 7 PM
- Convenience stores: 24/7
- Locals shop early morning or evening after work
Tax & Receipts:
- 10% consumption tax included in all prices
- Tax refund available for tourists over ¥5000
- Keep receipts for expensive purchases
- Locals always ask for receipts for expense tracking
Language basics
Language basics
Absolute Essentials:
- "Konnichiwa" (kon-nee-chee-wah) = hello
- "Arigatou" (ah-ree-gah-toh) = thank you
- "Sumimasen" (soo-mee-mah-sen) = excuse me
- "Hai, iie" (hah-ee, ee-eh) = yes, no
- "Wakarimasu" (wah-kah-ree-mahs) = I understand
- "Wakarimasen" (wah-kah-ree-mah-sen) = I don't understand
- "Eigo ga hanasemasu ka?" (ay-go gah hah-nah-seh-mahs kah) = Do you speak English?
- "Oishii" (oh-ee-shee) = delicious
Daily Greetings:
- "Ohayou gozaimasu" (oh-hah-yoh go-zah-ee-mahs) = good morning
- "Konnichiwa" (kon-nee-chee-wah) = good afternoon
- "Konbanwa" (kon-bahn-wah) = good evening
- "Oyasumi nasai" (oh-yah-soo-mee nah-sah-ee) = good night
- "Sayounara" (sah-yoh-nah-rah) = goodbye
Numbers & Practical:
- "Ichi, ni, san" (ee-chee, nee, sahn) = one, two, three
- "Yon, go, roku" (yohn, goh, roh-koo) = four, five, six
- "Nana, hachi, kyuu, juu" (nah-nah, hah-chee, kyoo, joo) = seven, eight, nine, ten
- "Ikura desu ka?" (ee-koo-rah deh-soo kah) = how much does it cost?
- "Doko desu ka?" (doh-koh deh-soo kah) = where is it?
Food & Dining:
- "Itadakimasu" (ee-tah-dah-kee-mahs) = let's eat (before meal)
- "Gochisou sama deshita" (goh-chee-soh sah-mah deh-shee-tah) = thank you for the meal
- "O-mizu kudasai" (oh-mee-zoo koo-dah-sah-ee) = water please
- "O-sake" (oh-sah-keh) = sake/alcohol
- "Kanpai" (kahn-pah-ee) = cheers
Souvenirs locals buy
Souvenirs locals buy
Authentic Local Products:
- Matcha Powder: High-quality green tea powder, locals use daily - ¥500-2000
- Miso Paste: Traditional fermented soybean paste, local varieties - ¥300-800
- Sake Sets: Traditional drinking vessels, local breweries - ¥2000-8000
- Traditional Crafts: Wooden items, ceramics, textiles - ¥1000-10000
- Local Snacks: Kit-Kat flavors, traditional sweets - ¥200-1000
Handcrafted Items:
- Washi Paper: Traditional Japanese paper, local artisans - ¥500-3000
- Pottery: Local kilns and traditional techniques - ¥1000-15000
- Textiles: Kimono fabric, traditional patterns - ¥2000-20000
- Wooden Items: Traditional joinery, local craftsmen - ¥3000-25000
- Metalwork: Traditional knives, tools, decorative items - ¥5000-50000
Edible Souvenirs:
- Local Sake: Regional varieties, traditional brewing - ¥800-5000
- Traditional Sweets: Wagashi, mochi, seasonal treats - ¥300-1500
- Tea Varieties: Green tea, hojicha, genmaicha - ¥500-3000
- Local Snacks: Regional specialties, seasonal items - ¥200-1000
- Pickled Items: Umeboshi, takuan, traditional preserves - ¥300-1000
Where Locals Actually Shop:
- Department Store Basements: High-quality local products
- Traditional Markets: Tsukiji, Ameyoko for authentic items
- Local Specialty Shops: Neighborhood stores for regional items
- Avoid Tourist Shops: Locals know authentic items cost same or less
- Family Recommendations: Ask locals where their grandmothers shopped
Family travel tips
Family travel tips
Japanese Family Customs:
- Department stores have dedicated kids' floors with play areas - locals spend entire afternoons here
- Children's safety is paramount - locals let young kids ride trains alone, very safe society
- Multi-generational shopping trips are common - grandparents actively involved in daily errands
- Kids participate in seasonal events like hanami (cherry blossoms) - whole families picnic together
Dining with Children:
- Family restaurants have tatami rooms where kids can sit on floor - shoes off tradition
- Children's sets (okosama lunch) available everywhere - locals expect colorful, fun presentations
- Many places provide wet towels and bibs automatically when they see children
- Quiet behavior expected in restaurants - locals teach children early about consideration for others
Public Transport Culture:
- Priority seats for families with small children clearly marked - locals respect and offer seats
- Station attendants actively help families with strollers - push-button assistance common
- Many trains have dedicated car areas for families during rush hours
- Locals navigate with complex stroller systems - compact, lightweight models preferred
Neighborhood Parenting:
- Local parks have strict age-segregated play areas - different zones for different ages
- School children walk to school in groups (登校班) - community safety approach
- Convenience stores stock baby supplies extensively - locals rely on conbini for emergency needs
- Bath houses (sento) welcome families - traditional bonding time for local parents and children